I can't imagine how this feels. Even with a healthy baby I didn't feel like myself for at least 3 months and even then I cried a lot and struggled with the changes (body, clothes that don't fit, hormones etc). I hope that life is a little easier on you as you continue your journey as a mother. I like your husband's expectation that you'll have stretch marks on top of stretch marks. Something for each one of your children, including Jack.